There’s one person who when I open an email from him I might agree to the “Sender wants to be notified” – and that’s Dino. No-one else gets it. I refuse every time. I refuse to have my response time measured. And many people don’t seem to be bothered about their own response time – so why should I? I have no idea if this option is default in Outlook Express/Outlook but it’s not in Thunderbird. In fact it can’t be because otherwise I’d get more. Why do people do this when a single click from me stops it? You will get an answer when I’m good and ready. Or when I remember.